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brooklynblue Don't burn bridge with ex if you have kids. Remember u will always have to have a relationship with this person!! I know it can be hard 9 years ago * 5 replies User reported
- splitter What they listerAlly drive u insane and full you with rage? 9 years ago User reported
  - splitter OMG the hate I feel right now is unreal 9 years ago User reported
- Moving_On Ha! He is driving me insane, on purpose. I am losing all the respect I had for him when I first started the divorce 9 years ago User reported
- dynamic That's a play it safe mentality. I don't burn bridges...I blow them up. We will forever have a link, not a relationship (at least not technically speaking). One the kids are old enough, you never have to really deal with them. You don't need to hate the other person, but think if it as business. You can strip away the emotions but still get things done in a civil manner because it has nothing to do with an "us" only a them i.e. children. 9 years ago User reported
  - Moving_On I agree actually. As much as I don't like my soon-to-be ex-husband, I told him that this is a business transaction for me so let's focus on the agreement and forget about our negative feelings for one another. Let's make sure the kids are winners and me and you are somewhat happy with the final agreement. 9 years ago User reported

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