Hi all! I’m new. I live in the UK. I’ve been married 15 years. Two kids aged 10 & 8. I decided this time last year I wasn’t happy and that I wanted out of the relationship. He worked away for years in end realised I was happier and less stressed when he want around. We have decided to split the childcare 50/50 but we are at loggerheads over finances. He’s very money minded. He’s on a massive salary and has a huge pension. I have been a full time Mum for 10 years so sacrificed my career. He feels it can only be a 50/50 split of finances however if it went to court they would look may the vast differences in our financial situation. It would be better for me to stay in the family home if I can. I have no money of my own. I’m about to start a part time low paid job to get back into the world of work. He thinks I should leave the house as I was the one who decided it was over. I have a new partner. He doesn’t like the house. I don’t know what to do for the best. The family home is very very tired. Wondering whether a fresh start is what I need. We are still living under the same roof. Completely ridiculous situation. He refuses to leave until we have a financial agreement in place. No idea what to do next. I can’t even afford to see my solicitor.