My wife had a brief fling last year, and I forgave her and want to move on. The reason she says is because she never got over me leaving her 8 yrs ago. The reason I left is because I didn't know what I wanted and instead of talking I walked out on her and 3 kids. I realised that it was her I wanted( and the kids obviously) and she took me back.
She never gave up on me during the time we separated, but I did t have an affair or have anyone else, I just had a male mid life crisis I think. I love her so much, but she doesn't feel the same. Although she knows she doesn't want to be with anyone else, she doesn't know if she can love me the same way she did and the way she should.
Has this happened to anyone else. I truly want to make this work and realised that the key to all relationships is communication. I hold myself to blame for her indiscretion as I know I hurt her so much. But can this be fixed if after 8m she still doesn't know how she feels about me.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.