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TDOG holidays are stressing me out and i lost it on my kids this morning. now i am worried they will tell my ex and he will judge me. ugh. 10 years ago * 5 replies User reported
- Daryll I understand. Take the stress most "happy" families have and it doubles or triples for families that are apart. Especially if there are conflicts like what you are experiencing. 10 years ago User reported
- SallyAlexis I understand your fear and your stress. You are carrying around sadness about the split and the separation of the family over the holidays. I try to be extra kind to myself around this time and not get into any one-upmanship with my ex. It's okay to feel sad. 10 years ago User reported
  - TDOG i hear you… guess i am a little paranoid right now since my ex has been a little cranky and i like it when he tells me i am the greatest mom in the world all the time… hhaa 10 years ago User reported
- JENnI I can honestly say that I never spoke bad about my mom to my dad. I understood when she was stressed and sad and I didn't want to make it worse for her by "tattling" to my dad. At the end of the day, you are the best thing they could ask for and they love you more than anything! 10 years ago User reported
- Stacy I understand stress around the holidays, and kids can definitely get on your last nerve sometimes! But i'm curious why it matters to you what your ex thinks? By the way, he is your ex, don't you think he has strong opinions about you already? 10 years ago User reported

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