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  • Self doubt I am actually 43 and a female. Had trouble getti g the drop down to accept those selections! 2 months ago   *   3 replies
    • Becky I’m going through something very similar. Very similar. This really resonated with me. I think once you breathe that fresh air again it’s like wow. No emotional intimacy in my marriage either and it’s a huge thing to accept but I don’t think it’s something I want to go on living without. 2 months ago
      • Self doubt Hey BECKY. Thanks for responding. Good to know I'm not the only person going through this... and at the same time, sorry that youre going though this. The past few months have been so difficult. Im finally starting to feel more like myself. Able to cope with the loss of the other guy, but still with moments and days of sadness. I told my husband that i want to separate. Most of the time im pretty sure that i want too get divorced, but iam so afraid of fucking up, leaving a good man and a decent marriage, putting my kids through such challenges, having my kids live in 2 houses etc. I think that in the end i would be happier, but i feel selfish for making a change that impacts my kids that is for my benefit. So, we're in a holding pattern at home, waiting on my next move. Not sure if ican go through with it it not. Trying to accept myself and my feelings and give myself add much time as i need. I don't want to stay in my marriage just because it's easier. Argh.... 2 months ago
    • AMBER Hi everyone am AMBER ERIN, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help the wonderful spell caster Dr Larry render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 4 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside, i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress house.. At this time i was confuse not knowing what to do. i was so depressed and had to tell a friend who told me how a spiritualist helped her out with her marital problems so i contacted him and i told him my problem and after he made some consultations he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happened, that he will restore my marriage but i never believe him. To my greatest surprise 3 days after he has cast the spell my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything he has done to me and the kids .... now am happy we living happily with my husband and kids...thanks to the help of the great Spiritualist Dr Larry, contact him with any problem and am sure he will help email website whatsapp him on +1(424)-261-8520 1 month ago
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