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  • erinnn i fucking love this site. SO NEEDED. PS - I AM SO HAPPY I AM NO LONGER PART OF A MARRIED COUPLE UNIT SITUATION. 3 years ago   *   7 replies
    • SVONE :) 3 years ago
    • anonymous1 if one more person says "i am so sorry" or "how are the kids doing?' in a sympathetic tone, i will scream!! my kids are doing GREAT... how are YOUR kids who are suffering in a home with a mom/dad situation that is less than ideal perhaps ? 3 years ago
      • sueKD Whenever someone says "Im sorry" I reply, "don't be- Im not", it usually surprises people into replying "well then I am happy for you". My marriage was not a happy one & I am grateful every day that I am free of it. I only got triggered by the sympathetic tone once, when my next door neighbor, after I told her I was happy about our split said "oh no! this is terrible for you! You don't know it yet, but this is very bad, you should be very upset". I was beyond pissed at her but she's an old woman who prob thinks its still 1920. I think that was the only time . After my split I don't allow anyone to have that kind of power over me or my emotions. Who knows why people say what they say? Most are trying to express concern & caring but don't know the right way to express it. I have had the opposite happen many times when talking w a sales woman or agent for something or other on the phone. I would call to remove his name from the account & explain why to which I would get "congratulations!". These were my kind of women! Bold & risky and I loved each time it happened. Its like the Insiders Club where you learn the secret to happiness. My children were the reason I took action to end my marriage. As they became more aware of us as a couple, I thought about what my marriage was going to teach them about relationships & love. That realization sealed the deal & I decided that we would have to get a divorce. My next relationship will look very different & be held to the standards I want my children to have for their lives. The next guy will be extraordinary in my eyes. He doesn't have to be gorgeous, or rich or any adjective to the extreme- but I will see him that way. I will only take the same in return- I deserve to be happy & loved in an extraordinary way. 3 years ago
    • runskiny I like the idea of the site, but I don't see many recent posts. I joined a while ago but am just taking another look and trying to figure the site out. 3 years ago
    • TIMBUKTU preach! 3 years ago
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