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SVONE i had this whole elaborate plan for how it was going to be. and now it just isn't. mourning the fantasy is as real as mourning the relationship. that said, reality is kinda not so bad! 9 years ago * 5 replies User reported
- BELLA J. I think in a lot ways we've all had a fantasy or expectation of what marriage would be like. However, being rooted in reality is the best way to be. 9 years ago User reported
  - splitter Easier said than done @bella 9 years ago User reported
    - BELLA J. I never said it was an easy task. The truth can hurt, but it could be a lot worse when you don't accept what reality has put in front of you. 9 years ago User reported
- dynamic Reality is awesome. When people learn to accept it, they'll learn they're in control of it. It's better than fantasy because your fantasy derived from things that don't exist base on what you know of the world. In reality, the world is full of the awesomeness that DOES exist that you have yet to discover. So you can spend all the time in your head with pseudo realities or in real like with real experiences. Choices is yours. 9 years ago User reported
  - dainty2014 Bravo - well said @DYNAMIC! 9 years ago User reported

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