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  • warriormama I have cheated on my husband. I happen to meet a man I met and fell in love with him. I been married to my husband for 32 years. My husband forgot our wedding anniversary which my opportunity to tell him I am not happy with our marriage. I did not indulge on my affair. I told him I am depressed, confused, fed up with my life and I need to find myself. He wants to work it out and doesn't want me to leave. I want out but I don't want to cause any pain to my husband and my older sons (25&26 y/o). Husband says I will breakup our family if I leave. I go away every weekend to spend time with my new man. My new relationship is exciting and I am getting all the attention that any woman would want. I want to move out on my own to be independent. This is not the first time I cheated on my husband. First time was a total regretful mistake that I wish I have never have done it. My husband forgave me. My husband has brought to my attention what I did before. Obviously, it is on his mind forever. I feel lost and I don't want to hurt my family. I feel I deserve to be happy or stay on this marriage and try to be happy. I sometimes feel foolish because I am not young woman. I am 60 years old and my new man is 58 years old. We can't believe we feel so happy and young again. I would appreciate any feedback for my separation. 1 year ago   *   2 replies
    • TDOG they say when we fall in love - we are actually falling in love with the self that WE are with this new person - that it's not so much the other person....... So... is there a way you can feel alive in EITHER scenario? Does finding yourself have to connected to this other guy? what if the new guy died? would you still want to leave you marriage and be alone? THAT is the big question. 1 year ago
    • brooklynblue have you been honest with your husband about your feelings before this person came along? or did this person coming along make you suddenly feel like your marriage is awful? 1 year ago
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