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dusty1106 I hope someone can relate and give me an idea of what to do. I have been living away for some time and I found out that my wife, who has been staying with a friend while I was away, has been "entertaining" men over at this friends house when the friend is asleep. I want to be able to make sure this really is happening, but I don't know how to go about it. If she is, this marriage is over. 10 years ago * 5 replies User reported
- TDOG what do u mean by "living away"? are you separated yet working on your marriage and seeing each other and in therapy ? did you agree to terms of how it would work before you moved out? 10 years ago User reported
- TIMBUKTU why dont you just ask her? 10 years ago User reported
  - sunny I think cause she never tell about it... 10 years ago User reported
- Daryll Is your friend that heavy a sleeper? How did you even hear about this? You could ask and your wife could lie, I guess. Surely, this friend knows the truth. 10 years ago User reported
- Unsure If you want the truth and are ready for it I'd say sit your wife and friend down together and confront the situation. Communication is key but if either of the party refuses to the sit down you'll know something is wrong. 10 years ago User reported

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