I split with my husband in July. We are close to signing our agreement. I met someone a few months later and we've been seeing each other for 5 months. I like him so much. We have a great time together, we talk we have fun , sex is off the charts . I'd like to see him more than once every 2 weeks but he has a busy life. I'm just wanting more than what he can give . We are fantastic together I think. I don't want to spend 24hrs a day with him I'd just like to see him a little more , maybe for a lunch every other week when I can't sleep over , or to speak to him a little more often. I'm sure I am coming off as needy but I have a wonderful life , friends , job. It took me so long to get out of a torturous emotionally abusive relationship and now I find myself involved with someone who is totally emotionally unavailable . I know I should probably just save myself the agony but it is so so good when we are together. I don't know what to do. Back off and enjoy it for what it is.and hopefully it will turn into something Or save myself the tears and pain of possibly getting my heart broken . It already feels a little broken anyway . I feel so incredibly sad.