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  • Bunhead I split with my husband in July. We are close to signing our agreement. I met someone a few months later and we've been seeing each other for 5 months. I like him so much. We have a great time together, we talk we have fun , sex is off the charts . I'd like to see him more than once every 2 weeks but he has a busy life. I'm just wanting more than what he can give . We are fantastic together I think. I don't want to spend 24hrs a day with him I'd just like to see him a little more , maybe for a lunch every other week when I can't sleep over , or to speak to him a little more often. I'm sure I am coming off as needy but I have a wonderful life , friends , job. It took me so long to get out of a torturous emotionally abusive relationship and now I find myself involved with someone who is totally emotionally unavailable . I know I should probably just save myself the agony but it is so so good when we are together. I don't know what to do. Back off and enjoy it for what it is.and hopefully it will turn into something Or save myself the tears and pain of possibly getting my heart broken . It already feels a little broken anyway . I feel so incredibly sad. 4 years ago   *   7 replies
    • plasterdust Wow, you answered all your own questions here! Pretty sure there's no "right" answer, only what you choose...which is inevitably the right choice. 4 years ago
      • Bunhead I ended up asking for more and drove him right away, didn't think i was asking for that much but so it goes . so stupid because I really loved the time I spent with him. who knows maybe in the future... 4 years ago
        • plasterdust Kudos to you for being truthful and expressing what you need. You 100% did the right thing and as some random Splitsville persona I say, "Way to go, full support, even if it's painful." Nobody knows what the future holds but being yourself in those moments is all you can do so at some point you've gotta end up meeting someone who is compatible based on your learning process. Keep on truckin' girl! 4 years ago
    • landonron12 hello to the everybody out there i am landon rondon from the usa and i am going to tell you the story of a powerful man DR AREWA of he is so powerful and respectful and diligent in his services he fulfills his promises always and his works are power as he restored love to my broken home, my wife and quareled over a little matter and it led to break up but i loved my wife and wanted her back so i contacted DR AREWA after i have tried so many ways without avail i told him what had happened and he said that i shouldn't worry that everything is gonna be alright and that my wife is gonna come back to me and love me more he kept his promise and brought my wife back to me he is really a genius you can contact him for help also on thanks 4 years ago
    • alphabeta oh girl. you deserve a present man. but it's ok to experience this moment with this man, and then release it... there is no there there anyway. xxxxxxx 4 years ago
    • Cathy My names is Cathy i want to testify about the great spell caster called Priest Ade my husband and i have been married for 5 years now we don't have a child and the doctor told us i can't give birth because my womb have been damaged due to wrong drugs prescription this got me so worried and my husband was not happy so he decided to get married to another girl and divorce me i was so sad i told my friend about it she told me about a powerful spell caster she gave me his email address well i never believe in it that much though i just decided to give him a try and he told me it will take 24hrs to get my husband back to me and i will get pregnant i doubted him the 3rd day my husband came back to me and was crying he said he didn't want the divorce anymore 3 weeks after the doctor confirmed that i was pregnant he can also help you contact him at or Website WhatsApp +2347059715465 1 year ago
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