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  • Boogie I've been reading through all the posts. It's nice to see that there are women out there that want and enjoy sex. I've been so unsexed for many years, I get this sense that women just don't want it, but that's just not true. #hope 9 years ago   *   7 replies
    • splitter i want sex!!! : ) 9 years ago
    • SVONE unless both partners arent int o sex - a sexless marriage sucks and is a sympton of a deeper issue. maybe lack of respect? OR.... the chemical attraction was never really there and you married for emotional security and forgot how important the sexual chemistry is. 9 years ago
    • sicknessandhealth everyone wants sex. some with themselves, some with their partner, some with someone who isn't their partner. but its happening! 9 years ago
    • crossreeds We definitely want sex!! I grew up with a very conservative upbringing/had limited sexual experiences prior to getting married, so a "sexual attraction" was not at the top of my list. I most certainly married someone safe and for emotional security....but it never really occurred to me...He didn't ask much and I just thought i was one of those women with a very low libido/little to no desire for sex/anything physical until.....ten years into the marriage (and 35 years old), i found myself deeply physically attracted to someone else....i'm sure you can guess what happened next. 4 years ago
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