Member sign in

Forget password?
Haven't signed up yet?
Get started

Mood

What is your

really pissed

stressed out

sad as f&*k

cool as a cucumber

meh

no comment

strangely happy

back in action

feeling amazing

Staying married may have long-term benefits. You can elicit much more sympathy from friends over a bad marriage than you ever can from a good divorce. - P. J. O'Rourke

Splitting up? Congratulations!

Splitsville is a social utility where you'll connect with others,
swap stories, get ideas, solutions and much more.

Your new life starts here.

JOIN NOW

It's free and you can remain anonymous. Learn more

Close
Back to topics
 
  • brooklynblue my ex-h still gets sad around holidays and cant really talk about my having a bf. i feel badly but also want to enjoy my hard-won new life! 10 years ago   *   3 replies
    • Daryll Well, sounds like he is having a hard time moving on. He needs to work on that for himself. It also puts your other post about going on a trip with him in more perspective. It might not be the kids who really misinterpret what that trip will really mean... 10 years ago
      • brooklynblue yes, exactly. we do it for the kids but sometimes i wonder if he gets ideas. 10 years ago
        • thenooge It sounds like your husband (and maybe you too) are having trouble moving on. Which is completely understandable, but it seems like you need to work on setting more boundaries and creating more distance between you two, at least temporarily. That might be the only way for you to "enjoy your hard-won new life" 10 years ago
Report as spam/abuse Cancel