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  • HOLLY Okay I know I posted the other day but little bit more advice required.... I said my husband and I have been separated for 7 months but we still live in the same house until it is sold . I think he is dating someone (took his toothbrush to work today and is mysteriously now 'working late'). I thought he would have more respect for what we shared and wait until we aren't living under the same roof before starting something? and then lying about it? Thoughts? Xxxxx 9 years ago   *   5 replies
    • FIONA Oh god how really hard for you. Mine Moved out and it is still hard so I can only imagine how tough it is for you, I admire your strength. Can you Manage to live on your own(financially) you need some space and not to subjected to all this. No he isn't being fair I am with you on that. Is it worth trying the 'I'm really not bothered approach' and build that wall around you? Good luck and keep in touch 9 years ago
    • Moving_On It is hard still living together (I am in the same boat, so I know), but why should it matter to you? It has been 7 months after all. Unless, you have not moved on. :( Don't let it get to you and try to move on too. The lying about it is childish, but I guess one more reason that should make you happy you are getting divorced. 9 years ago
    • 12345 Sometimes you just cAnt control when/how things happen... No rule book... Life is messy... 9 years ago
    • dynamic You are separated. What's respect have to do with it? He's moving on with his life. Why should he wait on you to do so? It's not respect, it more seems like a selfish thought in disguise. 9 years ago
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