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Deedee
So, I've been married for 11years in July.Forthe most part we get along really welly and have two boys we both adore. 3 years ago he had a 6 month affair with a coworker, I dealt with this, he got mental help, I addressed the fact that I had fallen out of love with him and become distant. After some lengthy discussions over 2 months we decided on a fresh start with a new house in a new town. So yesterday I found out he has again been cheating on me with a neighbour for 6 weeks...
To be honest, I'm a bit numb. I have told him we're over and he has said he'll end his life if I kick him out. I don't want to be blackmailed but also don't want to deprive my kids of a dad. (He's a great dad)
Feeling exhausted and like I don't know what to do next, I do love him but I can't trust a word from his mouth. He reckons it's his mind and mental health issues that were not resolved previously, I just think he's selfish...but not a bad person?
Very confused, sad & frustrated to say the least!