So just found this site and I am so glad there are others who have felt and gone through this same situation. I am coming up on my 18th yr wedding anniversary and I just told my husband for the 8th time at least that while I love him, I'm just thinking about the next 18 years being married to my best friend, essentially living with my roommate. We are truly best friends enjoy each others company immensely but no sex. When we do, I am forcing myself to do it and/or asking him to go hang at a bar with me or run errands and make a fun day out of it, literally ensuring we aren't at home alone. We have one son who will be 17 in two months, junior in H.S. I'm at the point where it's on the table and we are talking about splitting but he keeps saying it just feels wrong. Then I start doubting myself if leaving someone because there is no physical chemistry is a selfish thing when most everything else is great.
I could ramble on but I'll stop there for now.