SAD BUT NECESSARY
We've been together 18 years married for 13. Found out he's been using viagra without me. He says its for masturbation. There has been other evidence of infidelity in the past. All of which he denies. There are other problems in the marriage. I have been in therapy for 6 years trying to make it work. He has gone to a few sessions but is less inclined to deal with his issues. Staying in it for the children but I am unhappy. We don't relate well, have had many blow up fights over the years. I'm tired and don't think I have anything left to give. Not sure what's the right thing to do. At what point is my happiness more important than my children's?