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By Team Splitsville | March 20, 2014 | 4 replies

Having trouble deciding whether or not your relationship should be salvaged or left?

Take it one step at a time.   First, you need to go out ASAP and pick up a copy of Too Good to Leave or too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship by Mira Kirshenbaum.   You can thank us later.

  • howamihere great book, highly recommend! shared with a friend today and she was hooked at the quote above, "you can often fix what was broken , but you can rarely fix what's never worked in the first place." 10 years ago
    • splitter that is so crazy deep. and when i figured out what was never there in the 1st place, and realized i couldn't fix it and neither could he, i know the marriage had to end, that is was no one's fault, and i was free. 10 years ago
  • Unsure This is definitely an interesting read 10 years ago
  • Boogie I read so many books trying to understand how to handle my ambivalence. This will straighten you out in a big hurry. If you have ambivalence, READ IT. It will save your heart a lot of pain. 9 years ago
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