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  • hg.0322 26 years old and husband decided two months ago to leave me and our 6 year old little girl to go live in another state with his 19 year old girlfriend who he just met. I'm also pregnant with our son and it was planned; we tried for months. He claims he is in love with this other girl and she is the one. I am expecting an engagement before the ink is even dry on the divorce papers. He has been so hateful to me since it all came out; somehow it's my fault that he cheated and left us. He will let me know often that no other man will ever love me and two kids that aren't his and he looks forward to seeing me alone and miserable for the rest of my life. We weren't having issues before he left; it literally was like he woke up one morning and decided to be someone different. It's hard to work through being walked away from so easily. We were together for 8 years; married for almost 7. I am just hoping for better and brighter days ahead! 7 years ago   *   1 replies
    • TDOG i am so sorry. this sounds TERRIBLE. and that perhaps this just wasn't the right choice of mate in the first place. and you also both sound very very young. i was focus on the highest quality childcare you can find and finding a way to support yourself and your children. 7 years ago
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