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  • AMpr411 After 2 years and a half living together, passing for a rehab with my BF for his addition, it has been hard, he never was normal, he complained about everything and everyone, specially his family, he has a dysfunctional family, I passed for his brother insulting me (without reasons, just because he liked me and I just want him as a friend), the mother of his son also insulting me and telling him that I wasn't allowed to drive his son: too much disrespect around. My problem is no with them because I feel he was the one letting people cross the boundaries, and after all; I have being the one supporting him, he acts like nothing happen before, he get mad with me because I don't like what those people around do. I feel I lose respect for him, to see how he let people around being disrespectful. I try to see him with better eyes but he keeps doing immature things. we are 2 strangers under same roof, and I keep praying to find my way out. He is a good man but emotionally not a real grown up man. I don't know how to handle this in the best way possible. I know my best solution its just running far away, but sadly its not possible right now.. Please give some words to keep my faith and strength. 10 years ago   *   3 replies
    • Daryll Addicts can be emotionally and physically draining. It sounds like you have done a lot with a bad situation. Are you employed? Do you have your own finances? You will make it through this and you are obviously the strong one in this relationship. That can carry you along. 10 years ago
    • AMpr411 I don't have a job, I have been an entrepreneur all my life, now I'm working from home helping him with his job. My finances are not good because I haven't been working on my designs since 3 years ago when I moved from another country. I keep looking the way to organize myself and make my dreams come true, not easy until now, but I will keep finding. Thanks happy holidays! 10 years ago
    • Unsure Sometimes you have to help yourself and not those who obviously don't want it. Respect is a 2 way street 10 years ago
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