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  • lonelywife Felt this way for the past 2 years. seriously feel like I made the biggest mistake of my life in getting married. help me. thought I was all alone in these feelings. there's someone else- from work. I have never been sexually attracted to my husband but I want this guy bad. He's 20 years older than me so I know it can't possibly work out long term but I don't care. I need good sex. I need sex that I want to have. Please. Anyone want to start a dialogue? Thanks. 7 years ago   *   3 replies
    • TDOG do u have kids ? are yo willing to have an affair and stay married? are you willing to be honest with yourself and him ? are you willing to take responsbility for your part in all of it? 7 years ago
      • lonelywife I do not have kids. I cannot have an affair and stay married. I wish I could, but I cannot. Because I cannot lie to my husband and he will not stay with me if I have an affair. I am being brutally honest with both myself and him about everything. He knows. I am not keeping or hiding anything from him. I take full responsibility for everything but I still feel trapped as hell. 7 years ago
        • TDOG it's really okay to see that the relationship no longer is serving a purpose for anyone ...... and let is go... and make room for a new experience. 7 years ago
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