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  • CRMAAFB Recently divorced and my ex-husband and I adopted a dog while we were together. We don't have any kids, so our pup is our whole world. Honestly, we adore him. The dog is equally both of ours and my ex kept him in the split. Objectively, I know it's the best thing for the dog because I'm in the military and move around for work so much. Also, because I divorced my ex, I selflessly feel like he "needs" the dog more to cope, but it's SO hard. Some days when I'm all alone I seriously think about getting back together with him (that's what he wants) just to have my dog sleeping at my feet again at night because he's my best friend. Advice? 7 years ago   *   1 replies
    • want2bhappy Joint custody? It has been done before, do some searches online. Good luck... oh, and if not then maybe volunteer at a shelter so you can get some fur time without getting a new pet that would be lonely in your current living situation. 7 years ago
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