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LADYL
Anyone any experience with being married to a gambler/compulsive liar? Married almost 5 years.. Left him 2 yrs ago for him to straighten himself out.. He did and went to GA meetings etc and when I moved back 4 wks later the lying started again. Got to stage where I couldn't tell when he was lying or not. When he was caught out lying he would deny it, usually sulk and sleep in spare room and then blame and twist the situation onto me. Our sex life suffered because I didn't feel connected anymore due to the constant lying and catching him out about money. He wasn't paying rent an stuff and we ended up wing asked to leave our house. I broke with him at Xmas and was fine for 3 months.. Now I feel worse than ever and wider should I give him another chance. Not sure how I would cope seeing him with someone else. He has begged me back for months but nothing has changed- still owes people money and has lost friends and even got kicked out of his last place for not paying rent.. He tells me he has changed but I know he hasn't. Should I give him another chance? Will it ever change? Advice please from anyone in similar circumstance. Thanks