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  • LOVEGLOWXO Does anyone have any advice for when an ex moves on? Finding it difficult to cope. 9 years ago   *   8 replies
    • 12345 are you obsessing on their new person? do you see them or are you stalking on social media? 9 years ago
      • LOVEGLOWXO I'll be honest, yes I am. She was always a threat during our relationship but they were never 'friends' or 'followers' on social media - she was just that one girl I did not want him to talk to. Now we have split he is friends with her and with all her family too. I know it's only torturing myself looking so now we are not friends but occasionally I still look because I feel so betrayed. It's hard to explain the situation to friends so was hoping someone else has been through it? 9 years ago
        • erinnn Been there and if you are really done that treat her and their social media like cigarettes... Just don't have 1, and know that nothing looks like it seems. Also know the universe is abundant and there is enough for you. 9 years ago
        • SPark931 I still look at my affair partners socials. She has me blocked but I find ways to see it still. Our relationship destroyed my marriage and she disappeared on me the day it was discovered. It's been a year and I still love her and miss her. Pathetic, I know. 8 years ago
    • LOVEISCRAZY Been there.... Sadly sometimes a little stop gap relationship can help... Can u drum anything up? 9 years ago
    • RAN I'm in same boat, LGXO. All I can say is that time is helping, along with all the other things one does to try and move on, be healthy, and think positively about the future, rather than ruminating on the past. I agree it's really hard, though, when you still feel like you want or deserve an explanation -- but you know you don't, really, cause it will just renew the acute and worst pain if they were to tell you. And to still have the desire to use the way-back machine to change things from the way they were a year or two or five ago‚Ķ 9 years ago
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