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12345 grateful to have walked through the FIRE of leaving an okay marriage, believing I will be taken care of even if not traditionally "coupled"... 9 years ago * 6 replies User reported
- splitter what do you mean by "okay marriage"? 9 years ago User reported
  - TDOG The one you picked when you were young and scared. 9 years ago User reported
- chloe Congrats!!! 9 years ago User reported
- CARRIE What was just "ok"? Me and my hubby are great parents and we get along but the physical connection is gone and most of the emotional. I've been on the fence for over a year now. The guilt of how I'm hurting him and the kids. Ugh 9 years ago User reported
  - TIMBUKTU @CARRIE. yes torture. 8 years ago User reported
- plasterdust I wish my wife would take steps towards divorce. I don't want a divorce but she is adamant that we have no connection...but completely ignores the reality of taking action. So kudos to 12345 for taking action and doing something. Trust me CARRIE, it hurts way more when your wife is ready to leave but won't actually participate in the process. I'll take honesty and hurt any day over hiding and deceit. BOOYAH 12345. 8 years ago User reported

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