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Boogie Halfway divorced after a year of crisis. I got asked on a date, I accepted and she took me out for drinks. After 15+ years married, a few awkward moments for me to say the least. One small hurdle overcome, one more short step forward with finding the new me. #yesalittleselfish #noharmdone #fulldisclosure 9 years ago * 7 replies User reported
- TIMBUKTU I don't see why this was selfish, sounds reasonable and healthy. 9 years ago User reported
  - splitter Dude nice work, tell me you offered to pay? 9 years ago User reported
    - Moving_On :) 9 years ago User reported
    - Boogie Heh. She invited me out and expected to pay, and I paid. When I met her with friends, she bought the whole group's drinks and food, and I said it was payback. In conversation I learned she has no money problems, so I might let her pay next time. LOL! We're going out again this Sunday. 9 years ago User reported
- Moving_On Nothing selfish here. Hope you had fun, at least 9 years ago User reported
- FIONA Good for you, I am preparing for a first date after 16yrs soon.... Panic stricken. Hope all goes well for your next meet up! 9 years ago User reported
  - Boogie How did it go? Yes, had a few more meetups, but I'll just stop right there with the details! :O 9 years ago User reported

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