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  • CLEGirl I'm preparing for divorce. I'm so worried about what my husband will say to our kids because he doesn't want to split up. He can say the meanest things when he is upset and I don't want them crushed by his words... which I know he will regret later. What can I do to protect them from this? 7 years ago   *   2 replies
    • Conflicted1 In the divorce paper work during my divorce, it mentioned this. Something about not bad mouthing the other parent. I dont remember how it was worded, but it was in there. Ill say this though, it didnt help. There are no real repercussions for saying nasty things. My ex said HORRIBLE truly NASTY things about me to my son. Every name and accusation you can imagine. Im sorry you are dealing with this. My recommendation is some sort of counseling together for the sake of the child. Make sure this topic is discussed. 7 years ago
    • TDOG i truly believe that we should put how we will treat each other and the kid in the event of a split IN OUR MARRIAGE VOWS. We should all be so lucky to marry someone who can co-parenting with love no matter what the state of the romantic aspect of the marriage os... 7 years ago
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