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  • Danni girl Ive been with my husband for 6yrs now and we have had our ups and downs, and days/months that I thought we would not make it as a couple, but we always did. But lately things have changed and It's like he just does not care anymore... its not the same as our fights before, its a genuine not giving a F#@$... We have one daughter together, im pregnant with our second and we have his 10yr old daughter who has sever mental issues due to the fact her mom lost custody of her 3yrs ago and was a all around horrible Mother! This has made life less than easy but we have dealt with it and just did what we had to do, up until now that is.... I feel like he has lost all hope or care for us and all I can do is imagine leaving him but I don't want to split our kids up, they love each other and they love him, he is a great dad and its the only reason im still here... Im sooooo lost! 10 years ago   *   4 replies
    • AMpr411 Hi Danni Girl... Im sorry you are passing for these feelings when you are pregnant. I hope you can talk to him and realize if may he is just tired of the problems and challenges that life has been bringing to your relation if he cant open himself and be nice with you anymore, I will suggest to separate in good terms, any person deserve not being in a lovely relationship and sadly people stay with their couple under bad conditions just because the "kids" and them the most affected are them because they will be learning how to don't expect the best in a relationship because thats what they saw in their parents. You need to be happy and your husband as well so your kids will be happy too. Good Luck and take care of yourself and the baby you are caring. 10 years ago
    • splitter i am keying on the 10year old. poor sweet girl. 10 years ago
    • Happyhesgone Absolutely agree with AMPR411. I hate, hate, HATE divorce, but I had two daughters, and they saw their father treat their mother really crappy, and their parents fighting allllllll the time. You know that saying, "The best thing a father can do for his kids is love their mother?" Yeah...that. And you have the added problem of another child in the mix, too (hope she's getting counseling). Someone can be a great parent, but a really lousy partner. Just remember, you didn't marry a parent. You married a partner. 10 years ago
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