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  • brooklynblue My husband told me last night that he isn't in love with me and hasn't been in love with me for the last 5 years. He said he can't live this way anymore and wants to end it. I am in shock . 9 years ago   *   7 replies
    • breakfree Is this completely out of the blue? Five years is a long time to have no indicators of drifting apart. 9 years ago
      • brooklynblue you are right, 5 years is ridiculous. i have been on another planet with having kids etc. amazing how deep the denial runs! 9 years ago
        • LOU So sorry to hear that. Maybe he is having a grass is always greener moment. My husband did too so we separated and he came to his senses. We have other issues now tho and are splitting up again, my choice this time. 9 years ago
        • dynamic Congratulations! He just saved you from wasting any more of your life. Divorce and move on quickly. Yes, it's not that easy, but in the end it will be done. Get it over with. 9 years ago
    • KEVIN Sorry I'm in a similar situation where my life up and just Gave up on us, hang in there it sucks and you may feel helpless but you owe it to yourself to be the best you can be. Don't try to fix them that's on them, get help where you can and do what makes you happy. 9 years ago
    • ALEX-HU Same thing happened to me. Monday my fiance called me ( we were in a long distance relationship, planning to move together early next year) and told me he wanted out. Shock is where I am 9 years ago
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