-
sirgrebma
Separating, temporarily moving out, with young kids...how have you managed that scenario?
We are near the point where separation may be the only way I can understand if there is something inside me that feels any desire to stay married to my wife of nearly 10 years. The idea is to be away from her to see if life is miserable without her and if that's the case, then to find out what is blocking our emotional/physical connection so much that I am not wanting to save it now.
She has said that I need to feel what it's like to be without her and the kids. My response has been that I need to feel what it's like to be without her, because that is what life will be like in the future...not without her AND the kids.
So my question is, how have people tended to approach separation when young kids are involved?
Are there any issues I should be aware of the separation process that could haunt me should we move to divorce?
How have you communicated separation to young kids?
Any thoughts on this would be hugely appreciated!