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  • FIONA You are all so fab and supportive on this site and I would love your thoughts.......From UK and I have had 2 months of shock, panic, upset and sheer loneliness since my husband of 16yrs walked out with no warning. An old friend has been texting and these are becoming more serious saying he wants to be with me. I am not used to being on my own, have very strong feelings for him and know I will be adored. However he lives 2 hrs away. Do I don't i? Too soon does it matter? Rebound or could it be more? 9 years ago   *   10 replies
    • splitter Feels fast, can't you try dating on weekends etc first to get a vibe? Look ... My advice.... Take it for what it's worth but maybe don't fill up on the bread basket ... Know what I am saying? 9 years ago
    • anonymous1 This site IS so supportive! Not used to it... Used to more of a bitchy vibe. This is so different and great, 9 years ago
    • 12345 Please don't rush ! 9 years ago
    • Moving_On Take your time. If u care about this person and see potential in the future for this relationship, then definitely do not rush. 9 years ago
    • FIONA Thank you all, I wasn't planning on moving in. I have kids and a job to keep together. Just to meet and see how it goes. Really appreciate your comments and hope all is well in your lives. Maybe I will risk a meet up and see how it goes... Wish me luck!! 9 years ago
      • Moving_On By taking time, I actually meant don't go and make this a very deep and important relationship to you right away (moving in together should not be in the books at all right now :). Enjoy each others company but give yourself some room to deal with the divorce on your own. 9 years ago
    • exhusband hang tough fiona! 9 years ago
    • FIONA Thanks all, lots of text going back and forth, odd phone call... That's enough for now!! How are all you doing? 9 years ago
    • FIONA Thanks all, lots of text going back and forth, odd phone call... That's enough for now!! How are all you doing? 9 years ago
    • dynamic Lots of people on this site are tougher than I. It seems they can take a lot of abuse before they reach a breaking point. Now sometimes it doesn't matter to a person but if you just walk out on me and I come back, I condone those actions. I need to know why, period. Even then, that's if I even want to talk to you. Going back means tacitly agreeing to that level of treatment. There is obviously more to the story and he may honestly feel bad about doing what he did but in the end, you get what you desire and if you feel you desire that, then so be it. 9 years ago
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